It is a sin, a crime to be overweight, well not literally but people make sure to let you know you are fat and disliked by them. And I am ranting because one of my best friends was called fat, and I am upset.
Although I agree that the more weight we put on the more distress we put on our bodies, but that is no reason to be hurtful towards people who have an eating problem. No one is perfect in this world, no one. Even the most handsome man or the most beautiful woman has something s/he needs to change or work on to be a better human being.
Torturing overweight people is one of the last acceptable forms of bigotry.
What’s the harm, you ask? If the women are fat, why object to being called that? Well what if the receipt had read group of cripples or three ugly guys? If it is the truth, then what is the harm… right? What if all of your receipts highlighted your appearance shortcomings? Would it be so funny then?
The lack of empathy and compassion for those dealing with a weight problem has become frightening. Yes, it is frightening that people feel it is fine to harass, insult, and bully an overweight person. This is the type of behavior you would expect from bratty out of control children or from ignorant and hateful uneducated adults.
Those who attack fat people are bullies and predators, pure and simple.
The fact is that you won’t make your light shine any brighter by blowing out someone else’s light. Pay attention to your own plate. There is not a doubt in my mind that those vicious bullies who pick on fat people are miserable and have lives filled with a history of rocky relationships. Those who are happy and content don’t feel the need to victimize others.
I think that we can be beautiful just the way we are if we have TRUE compassion and kindness in our hearts towards ourselves and others. And seriously, being ignorant and disrespectful just make people really ugly in my eyes. So stop the bullying, yes?
Motivate yourself, everyday, every moment of your life, to continue living with strength, goals, energy. Get up every morning with that sparkle in your brain that makes your heart, your muscles and bones get up, then you smile big knowing you are doing the right thing FOR YOU!
Run after your dreams, chase them until they are conquered by you!
I want to dedicate this blog post to one of the most wonderful women I know, my daughter Alexandrea. She is a blessing in my life, a jewel that has beautified my whole world and my soul. Because of her I am a better person, and I want to offer my admiration, respect and of course all my love to her. I celebrate her womanhood everyday of my life, and so does her husband, who is a marvelous man who truly respects women, all women of all colors, shapes and nationalities.
To my daughter with love for being such an admirable human being.
If you and your fiancé have decided to marry this year, no matter how busy you both are you have to use your imagination, be creative, take your time to plan, look, shop around, refine,define what kind of wedding dress you wish to wear. Remember, this is hopefully one in a life time experience, marrying the love of your life! So choose wisely and do not give up until you find the wedding dress of your dreams.
Plan your day(s) of dress shopping. Look up all of the bridal shops within an hour of where you live/where you’re shopping. Look up their reviews online too- I recommend WeddingWire. Some shops are just awful and will ruin your whole shopping experience, and some are awesome. If you can, try to avoid the awful shops- trust me on this. And if your heart is set on a designer, of course look up what stores carry that designer. (Here’s something interesting to know: Bridal shops have to be a certain distance apart from each other to be able to carry certain designers, so if you’re looking for a particular designer, you may have to take a little trip. It’s a good idea to make appointments at bridal shops- many are even by appointment only. All the more reason to plan out your day!
My wild, exotic and vivid imagination is what made Julio Vino and Ines Di Santo and Martin Thornbag be my favorite wedding dress designers for Spring 2018!
“You know, I love wearing heels. I wish I could wear them all the time, but, you know, my sport doesn’t really permit i t.”— Allyson Felix
MY FAVORITE SHOES TO WEAR…GEE, NOT AT THE SAME TIME….
OK, MAYBE YES, I CAN…!
I give profuse thanks to Pink for making this remarkable, splendid, magnificent, powerful song that puzzled me for its honesty and strength in its words.
I can´t stop playing it I just love it so much. The first time I heard it, the lyrics made my heart, my spirit, my mind and my soul vibrate, it simply made me feel alive, strong and say: I am a winner!
But the fight is never over, the good fight, the fight for living, for loving, for conquering that freedom and respect that gives us dignity to us all.